It must have been my third day in Shanghai & the first time I had been alone in a foreign country. I decided I would spend the day around the things I love the most, airplanes. I had read about an aviation museum near Hongqiao International Airport, so I set out to find it.
I didn’t understand a word of Chinese & the concepts of subways & public busses were completely foreign to me. In hindsight, I should have paid attention when my friend explained the subway system to me. I should also point out that this particular day was cold & it was raining, the worst weather combination in my opinion.
I made my way to the closest metro station, got a few snacks & jumped on the first train that was headed in the right direction. I made it to Jing’an Temple & I had to change lines there. It seemed simple because there was only one other line at that station… maybe not simple enough. Perhaps I was overwhelmed by the culture shock or maybe it was my complete ignorance for public transport, either one, I got on the correct line going in the wrong direction.
About an hour & a half later, I arrived at the end of the line which happened to be Pudong International Airport. I realized I had made a mistake. I connected to the WIFI & reassessed how to get to the other airport. Slightly upset, I headed back to the metro & attempted to get to the other airport.
After a further two & a half hours, I got off the train at the station before Hongqiao in the hopes of being able to walk around & find the museum. It was cold & wet & I struggled to make my way around. I decided to go back to the metro, get to the airport, find some food & then try find the museum from that angle.
Due to some safety concern, the police weren’t letting non-passengers into the airport & from my understanding, you could only leave that area on the metro or in a car, not on foot. Being naïve & not knowing that these things happen while travelling, I was extremely upset & felt really emotional. I was hungry, dripping wet & shivering. The only shop in the metro station was a tea stand with a glass display case full of cakes & treats. I went there to buy some tea. Using a combination of charades & pointing, I stumbled my way through an order. I got my cup of tea & I went to pierce the plastic covering with a straw… Sploosh! The straw had gone through the whole cup. Piping hot tea all over my hand, down my arm, covering the entire display case & dripping into puddles on the floor.
I often think of how amusing it must have been for passers-by to see an awkward foreigner being shouted at by a tea vendor. I never did find that aviation museum. I also never got to taste that Oreo infused vanilla milk tea. I did, however, learn the importance of checking the weather forecast, double checking you are headed in the right direction(literally) & making sure you know exactly where you want to go, not just having a vague idea.
Dan, this really good article. Interesting, heading toward the intense (that’s important) and left me feeling that I had done the journey with you (whew!). Well done and keep up the good work.
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Thank you for your words of encouragement!
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Great writing and way to brave solo traveling. It isn’t the easiest, especially when you don’t speak the language. I have always wanted to go to Shanghai!
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Thanks! Shanghai is such an amazing place, it surprised me in so many ways! Definitely recommend it!
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Hi Dan! I think you should write more (I mean fine one of me to say so as I have only recently started my blog) but you have a way of writing that makes me, the reader, feel I was going through the experience with you. Following you and looking forward to more stories from you! 🙂
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Thank you so much for such kind words. I have a few posts I am finishing up & soon, you’ll have plenty of my experiences to read about 🙂
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Looking forward to it! 😊
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Agreed… your style is very reader friendly! 🙋🏼♀️
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Next time you’ll nail it and get to the museum with no dramas! Also hopefully without scolding yourself with hot tea 😉
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Hopefully hahaha I like to think I’m much better at public transport now
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Fun post! My recommendation, maps. Paper ones. Every time. You’ll look like a massive tourist but you’re hopefully less likely to get lost. Good luck next time. (One of my absolutely favourite things is trying to navigate through unfamiliar subway systems but them I’m a bit weird)….
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Yes! Paper maps are the safest bet. I’ve learnt now. But just make sure you open them indoors or when there is no wind otherwise you become like a sailboat
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True!
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I can imagine how confusing it would have been. Nonetheless, the lessons learnt are very valuable. 🙂
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True! No experience is ever wasted if you learnt from it.
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Nice one Dan. The thought of traveling solo is scary for me. How do you manage with everything and deal with boredom?
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This is such a brilliant point you’ve raised. Traveling solo is such a daunting thought that many people never attempt it for fear of failure. Your first solo trip is scary, but the personal rewards from it are inexplicable. How do I manage everything? I learnt a while back that writing things down is important & prevents things from being forgotten. This should happen during the planning stage of your trip because when things start to get a bit hectic in the time leading up to departure, you won’t have anyone to remind you of anything you’ve forgotten. As for the boredom, well, people don’t realize that you do get bored & you can feel lonely at times. Find a hostel with good reviews & stay there instead of a hotel because you’re far more likely to meet very interesting people there. The hostel will probably have a lounge or chill area where you can usually find someone to get to know. If that isn’t possible, going for a walk is a good option – obviously don’t go down dodgy alleyways or go walking at night, but if you keep safety conscious & walk without a destination/get lost on purpose, you’ll have a good time. If you do find yourself bored, I wouldn’t recommend spending time on social media or going to a mall because you most likely do that while at home. Hopefully that answered your question?
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Yes, thanks a lot.
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Great. If you were to travel solo (which I highly recommend😉), where would your first destination be?
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Hmm, Greece!
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Great choice! Go for it!
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What an adventure!
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It sure was. Thanks for reading!
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Love the post. I haven’t solo-traveled before, and it seems kinda scary! Props to you for doing it.
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Thank you for reading. I’d strongly recommend solo travel, even if you only do it once. The pros far out weigh the cons.
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I’ve heard you meet more people since you won’t just rely on friends/travel companions. What other pros are there that you have personally seen?
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As you’ve said, you meet lots of people. You also are forced to approach strangers & ask them for help. The combination of these things have really helped me overcome severe social anxiety. During planning & build up to the trip, you are doing all the planning & are responsible if something gets forgotten so it has taught me to be more disciplined when it comes to planning. Things also go wrong while traveling & when you’re alone, you are forced to learn how to make decisions quickly. You get to do what you want & when you want so you don’t feel obligated to endure something just because your travel partner wants to do it. You spend a lot of time alone so you have plenty of time for introspection. You learn who you are on a greater scale. That’s just off the top of my head, hopefully that answers your question?
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That’s perfect. Best of luck on your travels! I’m very interested to read more about your experiences!
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Thank you for your support, I appreciate it! Hopefully I can read about your solo travels soon😊
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This was hilariously relatable to read. Brilliant writing and made me laugh… sorry. But I’ve been there
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I’m glad it made you laugh, hopefully that’s what my blog will do. Either I’m really unlucky or clumsy, but these types of things happen far too often when I travel. Thank you for reading & your compliments!
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Oh wow! What a disaster of a day! I’m sure you look back on it now and laugh. I recently got our car and caravan stuck in mud in a national park and spent more than three hours digging myself out in the middle of the night by myself (I was very panicked at the time), but at least like your day it makes for a fun story to tell (because no-one would care as much for a story about seeing the displays in a museum). Awesome read mate!
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I often laugh about it, yes! It definitely sounds like an adventure to have to dig your vehicle out of the mud – glad you managed to get it out!
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Great post. Getting around in China is not easy! I lived in Hangzhou for a year and spent a lot of time in Shanghai. Hope you got to see the planes eventually.
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Thank you so much for taking the time to read it! I’m sure you have your own crazy stories about getting around China? Haha I didn’t get to see those planes unfortunately🤦🏻♂️
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Such a shame you missed out on the planes….one of my favourite things to do as well! Great post though and definitely a reminder that things don’t always go as smoothly as you plan….
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Wise words there! I’m still gutted I didn’t get to see those planes, must make a plan to go back soon
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I went right along with you on your frustrating day. as a preschooler I lived in Shanghai’s french Concession, part of the pre-WW2 International Settlement. We often travelled by rickshaw.
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Thanks for reading! How long did you live there for?
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Reblogged this on Tourism Observer.
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I wanna visit Shanghai so bad to see what it’s like! You’re so lucky, man.
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You should definitely go visit! Thanks for reading it!
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This sounds hilarious but scary and intimidating all at the same time…Talk about Murphy’s law having the last laugh!!
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I definitely felt very intimidated at the time, but I often think back & laugh about it!
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I’m a Chinese. Sometimes, you can ask people, most Chinese people are very friendly. Of course, you need to ask people who Speak English
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I experienced amazing Chinese culture & friendliness at other parts of my trip, so I certainly agree with you! Thank you for taking time to read my blog!
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I love how you were able to describe your experience, avoiding the “sugarcoating” that a lot of people include. Travelling (with people or solo) can be glamourous but realistically it’s difficult as well! In the end, it’s so worth it! Great post.
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Thanks for your comment. I find a lot of people are scared of offending people from a certain city or country & in turn, will avoid saying anything in a negative light. I also think that social media has made travel seem a lot more glamorous than it actually is & people get a shock when it is anything less.
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couldn’t have said it better
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Haha fantastic! I also love travelling solo and my first experience was in Poland 😀 I definitely agree re checking the weather forecast beforehand but I normally tend to try figuring it out as I go along when I’m already there.. it gives me more of a challenge. Mind you, it took me 3 hours to find the bus back to my accommodation the first time around 🙂 Thanks for taking me on this journey with you and I hope you get to taste that tea one day 🙂
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Thanks for reading! Out of curiosity, what made you decide on Poland as your first solo travel experience? I’d love to visit some time.
I’m sure you will always remember those 3 hours to find the bus & that’s one of the things I love the most about travel – even when things go wrong, you still make the best memories.
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Yes, definitely 😀 I had decided on Poland as a half day conference which interested me on Attachment and Personality Disorders was happening there and took the opportunity to visit a small fraction of the country while I was there – Warsaw and Krakow mainly. I plan to go again in the next few years, this time toward the more mountainous areas 🙂
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Ah… It sounds superb. I look forward to reading about it!
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Fantastic! 😁
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Hi from a new reader! I like the way you wrote this post, it’s simple, funny, and interesting to follow 🙂 looking forward to read more from you! Oh, and thanks for stopping by at my blog 😀
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Thank you for your kind words, I appreciate it!
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Wow you really changed my opinion to go anywhere without a direction or not caring about anything but hey it’s a experience that you couldn’t forget right so may be I should go to get experience but after checking weather forcasting
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It is smart to check the weather😁
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Travelling is always and adventure and not always a good one. Glad you can look back and laugh at it now. Cheers. Allan
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That is something I’ve had to learn slowly – can’t agree more. Thanks for reading 🙂
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You should have just found another foreigner and ask them to help you. Specially near pudong. I lived in songjiang before and there was still foreigners there. There’s a website I forgot the name where foreigner can talk there. As always being super cautious …
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This article is really good thanks for sharing your experiences. Keep em coming
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Thanks for stopping by
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very interesting blog!
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What a compliment! Thank you for reading!
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That’s just one of those China days!
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Yip😁
Thank you for reading!
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ha when travelling in China, there is never a dull moment. Never been to Shanghai but have visited a few places in Guangxi and Yunnan province. Not knowing the language makes everything that much more challenging. Reading this, I understood your struggle haha. you made it though!
btw, i like the pic of the mobike 🙂
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I’m so glad you can relate to this. Thank you for reading & thank you for leaving this comment!
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Damn… It really wasn’t your day. I can’t imagine how confusing the metro in Shanghai must have been! Even just the roads are quite something as I recall. I love how you told the story, you are a very talented storyteller!
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